Is this Fear of Success?

Is this Fear of Success?

The Powerful Paragraph

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” - Marianne Williamson

I remember the first time my therapist asked me if I had a fear of success. I thought, “How absurd? Of course, not! I want to be successful.” And to prove it, I started working harder, writing more than I’ve ever written before. But the more I wrote, the more others expected me to write. The more I wrote, the more people would read it. And I started asking myself, “who am I to think I’m a good writer - that I’m worthy of being read?” I realized that I did, indeed, have a fear of success. Success is hard. It comes with responsibility and expectations and unyielding discipline. It’s scary. But then I think of the opposite - to stop writing. To abandon the one thing in this world that I love more than anything, and that’s even scarier. So, I have the choice between two equally intimidating options: carry the weight of success or free myself of the burden but never do what I truly love. For me, it’s the former, no matter how hard or how scary.

The Powerful Question to Ponder

How can you lean into the fear of success?

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